parenting success - building confidnece

Request from dads: How to build both work and parenting success together?

These past blog posts focus on your resources to be your best self at work.  Today, we look at one of the areas that professionals approach with delicacy:  family life.  How does parenting “success” (we will define this below) favors prosperity in other dimensions of life? You may have heard the saying, “Happy wife, happy …

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“Toxic Employee” series - 3/3 : Give “feed-forward”

Don’t give feedback. Give feed-FORWARD Feedback can be difficult to receive. A team member with toxic behavior may have had ears full of “constructive criticism.” Full ears lead to closed hearing. In one of our training activities, participants are given a series of directives. “Be on time.” “Take notes.” “Treat the client well.” “Check the …

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“Toxic Employee” series – 2/3 : Counter Toxicity with “I” Messages

Challenging employees often diffuse their toxins under the radar which makes the negative impact difficult to contain : how can you counter this toxicity with “I” messages. Last post we looked at getting the behavior out in the open. What if your colleague avoids you and slithers out of setting a meeting for constructive discussion? …

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Which animal is your toxic employee? Snake

“Toxic Employee” series – 1/3 : Acknowledge the challenge

Consider the case of a team with a toxic employee. I am coaching the manager who says, “I told him right out what is not working, and he keeps doing it.” The manager is being honest with feedback. And yet, the situation perpetuates itself…even worsens. This post is the first in a three-part series to …

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